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Monday, December 28, 2009

SWEET DREAMS-THE LOSS OF MY BABY

It's hard for me to write this,my 27 year old son Horace was murdered last night.My baby was found in a Super Kmart parking lot frozen,without a shirt or jacket or shoes.I was checking my emails earlier,when I recieved an email from my 29 year old daughter whom lives New Jersy,though her email was brief I knew that something dreadful had happened.She said that she had to talk to me about Horace and it was "terrible". I start to cry and I couldn't stop,I told my husband that I had to call my daughter and that I was scared.When I called her I lived every parents worst nightmare.My child was dead and there were very little answers.We hollered and cried together and I knew that I had to call my 22 yr. old daughter who now lives with my brother.It didn't seem real to her either.My two daughters and I had been talking to Horace for awhile on Facebook.We all talked to him on Saturday.This was the last time that either of us had heard from him.My 22 yr. old daughter had my nephew bring her over to my house for awhile,we hugged and cried together.Horace's wife called me around this time well,actually she had her sister speak with me first.I expressed to her that I already knew the horrible news.She relayed this to Horace's wife,I could hear her in the background.Finally,she(my son's wife) was on the phone.The details that she described to me did not make sense.She said that the police had her come and identify my sons lifeless body.They (the police) showed her a video tape of my son in Super Kmart making a beer purchase (where she supposedly dropped him off) there are three other guys in the video with Horace but,you do not see him leave the store but,he is found in the parking lot this morning without a shirt or shoes or coat.I had to get off of the phone because of a severe nose bleed and I broke down again to the point that I could not talk.She mentioned something about his teeth and that I could not come for two weeks because he (my son) was frozen and he had to thaw out before they could perform an autopsy.I told her that she wasn't making any sense and that my nose was bleeding,I told her not hang up and I gave my 22 year old daughter the phone to jot down her contact numbers.When I got back on the phone,I had to speak to her sister again,she was gone.I remember (my sons wife) kept repeating that she was sorry,very sorry.She kept saying that over and over.Horace was in an abusive relationship with her,she had once stabbed him in the arm a few years ago.And they would seperate from time to time.He had told me that he cooked and cleaned and took care of the kids while she worked and attended school.He was not allowed to go anywhere or get on the computer when he wanted,he helped her buy two cars but,he was not allowed to drive them.Somebody took my child's life for nothing.He was a good man and didn't deserve to be left out in a freezing cold parking lot.I'm going to call the local police dept. there in the morning,I do not believe that I know the truth about what happened to my son.
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2 YEAR DIED AFTER BEING ABUSED BY RELATIVES SHE WAS RECENTLY SENT TO LIVE WITH...

Body of abused toddler flown back to Chicago
December 28, 2009 5:44 PM UPDATED STORY
The body of a 2-year-old girl was flown back to Chicago today, just weeks after being sent to live with relatives in the St. Louis area while her mother worked and planned to attend school.
"I'm not going to see my daughter anymore," Euranus Barron said during a tearful telephone conversation this morning. "I'm not going to hear her laugh."
Her daughter Orionis Barron-Taylor died Dec. 19 after being abused by her great-aunt's boyfriend, according to police in Hazelwood, Mo. http://www.chicagobreakingnews.com
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CHARLIE SHEEN'S WIFE BROOKE CALLS 911

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FOLLOW-UP ESCAPEE CAPTURED! Most Wanted Fugitive Captured In Georgia - NewsChannel 5.com - Nashville, Tennessee -

Most Wanted Fugitive Captured In Georgia - NewsChannel 5.com - Nashville, Tennessee -
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PERVERT UNSUCCESSFUL IN CHILD KIDNAPPING ATTEMPT IN AURORA STORE,WHILE MOM SHOPPED...

Aurora man charged in attempted child abduction from store
December 28, 2009 12:34 PM
An Aurora man who police say tried to get an 8-year-old boy to leave a grocery store with him was found to have marijuana, sex toys, children's toys and two handguns in his van when police caught up with him, authorities said today.
Stephen P. Sweigart, 61, of the 900 block of Lenwood Court, was ordered held in lieu of $50,000 bond in Kane County Circuit Court today following his arrest Saturday, according to a release from the Aurora Police Department.
Sweigart faces charges of felony attempted child abduction, aggravated unlawful use of a weapon and possession of cannabis, as well as 10 misdemeanor charges of unlawful use of a weapon, and two counts of unlawful possession of drug paraphernalia, police said.
Sweigart was at a Jewel-Osco Store in the 1900 block of West Galena Boulevard in Aurora about 8:50 p.m. Saturday when he came up to the 8-year-old, talked to him about toys the boy was playing with, and then asked him to come home with him, according to the release. When the boy refused, Sweigert left the store, according to police.
But the boy's mother, who was in a checkout line with his older sister, saw what happened and told store employees, who called police. In the store parking lot soon after, the mother apparently told a 43-year-old Aurora man about the abduction attempt, and the man followed a minivan Sweigert was driving and called police, according to police.
An Aurora police officer found Sweigart in his driveway in the minivan. When he came up to the vehicle, he smelled burned marijuana and asked Sweigart if he could search the minivan, according to police.
In the minivan, the officer found two handguns, one of them loaded; several boxes of ammunition; drug paraphernalia; sex toys; children's toys; several pieces of lingerie; and numerous martial-arts style throwing stars. Authorities also searched Sweigart's house and found more than 2½ ounces of marijuana, as well as more drug paraphernalia, according to police.
Sweigart was being held in Kane County Jail and is next scheduled to appear in court Jan. 8. http://www.chicagobreakingnews.com
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PEORIA MURDER SUSPECT TURNS HIMSELF IN...

PEORIA — A murder suspect wanted on a $2 million arrest warrant turned himself in at the Peoria Police Department on Sunday night, police said.
Nikko J. Clark, 21, whose last known address was 3725 W. Verner Drive, turned himself in about 9:50 p.m. at Police Headquarters and was arrested about an hour later, according to police reports.
Clark was wanted for the slaying of Brandon D. Grant, 23, of Peoria on Nov. 21.
Grant, the city’s 13th homicide victim of 2009, was found with a single gunshot wound to the abdomen inside a car in a parking lot outside Pierson Hills Apartment Complex, 1819 N. Lehman Road.
It has not been released if Grant was shot in the car or elsewhere.
On Dec. 15, Clark was indicted by a Peoria County grand jury on charges of first-degree murder and possession of a weapon by a felon. Although Clark was not in custody at the time, bond was set at $2 million.
Police have not indicated a motive in the shooing but on Monday said the alleged shooter and victim knew each other.
For more complete details, please see tomorrow’s Journal Star or check pjstar.com later.
http://www.pjstar.com
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2 DIE IN QUESTIONABLE PORCH FIRES...(cnn news clip)

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Sex Offenders Gone missing: 10 Southeast Georgia sex offenders | Jacksonville.com

Gone missing: 10 Southeast Georgia sex offenders Jacksonville.com
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TEENAGED SON FINDS MOM SHOT TO DEATH IN THEIR APARTMENT,BOYFRIEND MAY BE TO BLAME....

16-year-old boy finds mother shot dead in Brooklyn home; friends say her boyfriend may be to blame
By Kevin Deutsch and Joe Kemp
DAILY NEWS WRITERS
Sunday, December 27th 2009, 4:00 AM
A Brooklyn teen found the body of his mother who was shot in the head Saturday in their Flatbush apartment - and friends said a boyfriend may be to blame.
Julia Houston, 32, was discovered on the floor of her Regent Place home at about 1:45 p.m. by her 16-year-old son, cops and family said.
"For her son to see her like that, it's terrible," said a friend, Margarita Robinson, 37.
Houston, a mother of three, worked as a health care assistant for senior citizens, relatives said. "I feel bad for her babies," Robinson said. "They lost their mom."
Friends were suspicious of Houston's recent boyfriend, who lives on the first floor of her building.
"People that cared about Julia didn't really like him," said a friend.
Investigators had yet to question the man, but were pursuing his whereabouts, sources said. "We don't know" if he's capable of doing this, said the friend. "But it definitely crossed our minds."

Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com
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Gunman empties gun on man in car, reloads, empties again :: CHICAGO SUN-TIMES :: Chicago Crime

Gunman empties gun on man in car, reloads, empties again :: CHICAGO SUN-TIMES :: Chicago Crime
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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HURTS---LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSE TO

ARE YOU A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

1. Is your partner threatening or violent towards you or the children? 2. Do you find yourself making excuses or minimizing your partner's behavior? 3. Do you feel completely controlled by your partner? 4. Do you feel helpless, trapped, alone, and isolated? 5. Do you blame yourself for the violence? 6. Does your partner blame you and tell you that you are the cause of all his problems? 7. Do you blame the violence on stress, on drugs/alcohol, or a bad childhood? 8. Does your partner constantly accuse you of having affairs when he can't account for 100% of your time? Does he tell you jealousy is a sign of love? 9. Do you fear going home? 10. Are you limited in your freedom like a child? (Go to the store and come straight home. It should take you 15 minutes.) 11. Do you find yourself lying to hide your partner's real behavior (for example, saying you fell down the stairs when actually you were pushed)? 12. Are you embarrassed or humiliated by your partner in an effort to control your behavior, especially in public? 13. Does your partner abandon you, leave you places, or lock you out? 14. Does your partner hide your keys, mail, or other important papers? (clarkprosecuter.org)

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THE AFTER MATH OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE (by Dennis Thompson Jr.)

People who were sexually abused as children may have issues with sexual dysfunction and self-destructive behavior when they get older. Sexual abuse leaves many scars, creating feelings of guilt, anger, and fear that haunt survivors throughout their lives. Adults who have undergone sexual abuse as children commonly experience depression and insomnia. High levels of anxiety in these adults can result in self-destructive behaviors, such as alcoholism or drug abuse, anxiety attacks, and situation-specific anxiety disorders. The damage extends to the sexual abuse survivor's sense of their own sexuality. Many survivors also have trouble pursuing adult relationships and enjoying sex as an adult. The abuse can color a person's sexuality, preventing the survivor from pursuing a healthy sex life with a loving partner. Sexual Abuse and Sexual Behaviors In general, childhood sexual abuse survivors tend to either pursue sex recklessly as adults or to forgo sex completely, says Stephen L. Braveman, MA, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Monterey, Calif., and the western regional representative of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. "They typically wind up with splitting behavior, where things become very black and white," he says. "Either they are very sexually active, or they shut down sexually." www.everydayhealth.com

SWEET DREAMS 4 -My fourth Entrie

Monday, July 6, 2009 Sweet Dreams 4 I remember back in June of 94,I was married to my 2nd abusive husband and pregnant with my now 14 year old son.Nicole Brown Simpson had been murdered.This sent a real chill down my spine.I can remember thinking,now her kids are left without a mother..But,I still remained in my abusive marriage for a little while longer.However,I did separate from him before my son was born.Of course this was not our first seperation.....ya,know the victim most always goes back to her abuser..You know the drill...'I'M Sorry' it won't happen again...Anyway on to Clue #3 CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR...The abuser wants to know your every move...if you arrive home late from an appointment or work,the abuser will become angry and accuse you of seeing someone else.The abuser at this point is very irrational.Trying to defend your actions or trying to reason with the abuser at this point can be very exhausting, to say the least.The abuser will want to control everything from what you wear,to where you go, to whom you talk too.Are you starting to wake up?Well,THERE'S EVEN MORE...AND IT GETS MORE SERIOUS AS WE GO ALONG...

SWEET DREAMS-THREE'S A CROWD

I can remember having the very misguided feeling of being special and ooh so loved,because my husband was so insanely jealous.I was foolish and naive enough to think that this was cute.I was 17,the first time I got married...of course,it was against my adopted parents better judgement.But,you already know...that of course, I did not listen to them.So many women feel unrealistically flattered by the potential abusers jealousy.WAKE UP! You are headed in a DANGER ZONE! I must also mention that,I have suffered from depression my whole life..So,of course this added to my insecurities and acceptance of allowing myself to be a victim time and time again for years..I must say when my 21 yr. old daughter started dating her soon to be abuser..I could do something that,I could not do each time I met one of my future abusers..It was if I had some kind of a built in radar..something that I did not have concerning my abusive relationships.He may as well have been wearing a label because I could see right through him.He absolutely,terrified me.I tried over and over again to warn my daughter to no avail.She stayed in the relationship.I could tell exactly when she was starting to see the REAL person that she too quickly became involved with..Which brings me to #2)QUICK INVOLVEMENT! That Worldwind Wanna Be Romance.The potential abuser comes on strong "You are the only one for me" or "you are the only person that I can trust or talk to"..Many abusers propose in less than six months.Potential abusers will often put pressure on their victims for commitment...to the point that the victim may feel guilty if they want to slow down the relationship.This is yet another important clue..PAY ATTENTION! If these two very important clues are not enough Believe me THERE ARE MORE!

MY SECOND SWEET DREAMS ENTRY

Sunday, July 5, 2009 Sweet Dreams Too First,I would like to say the feelings of hopelessness and just sheer low self esteem can cause a woman to feel so worthless,that she feels somehow it is her fault that her partner is abusive to her.These feelings are Totally Untrue.Please,Please do not listen to these negative feelings.If you have a trusted family member or friend..Please confide in them and let them be a strong source of support.You CAN NOT CHANGE HIM! You are waisting valuable time,if you try.I know that I felt for years, like it was my fault..I thought 'It must be my fault,if I keep attracting these kinds of guys".If you do not have a friend or family member,talk to your family doctor.If this is not an option call 1-800-559-safe.I know that a lot of women stay in the relationship because of finances and their children or both.Especially today,in these hard economic times.It can be difficult.But,your life is priceless..just remember that.If you have young children,they desperately need you.For those of you that would like to know what to look for, as far as WARNING SIGNS..TO VIOLENT ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR..# 1)EXTREME JEALOUSY! He will tell you especially in the beginning of your relationship,that his jealousy is because he loves you so much..you are the best thing that has ever happened to him.He doesn't want lose you.WATCH OUT!

SWEET DREAMS (The beginning of this blog)

This blog is dedicated to women survivors of domestic violence.I was a victim of domestic violence for years.It is behind me now but,it recently touched my 21 year old daughter's life.All of the signs were there and I saw them and I desperately tried to warn her about them.But,of course she would not listen to me.Her ex-boyfriend recently set our house on fire as we were sleeping.The Lord awoke my daughter in time for her to alert us all(my husband & my two teenaged sons)we were able to escape without harm and our house was not very badly damaged.I have since installed a home security system.We all are still terrified because he was never arrested for the aggravated arson.The police did not have prove that he did it.Even though he posted a photo of himself,posing with a lighter burning,on a social network.My daughter has a 2yr. protection order against him.He violated it with telephone calls,he was arrested for this and he does have to go to court for it.In my blog I will list telltale signs of a potentially abusive person.I hope that I can help someone out there avoid becoming a victim of domestic violence.

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MANHUNT IN PEORIA (published ALLVOICES) by me win59

On Tuesday Morning November 16th,my husband and I awoke to the startling news of two inmates escaping from the Peoria County Jail sometime between Monday 8:00pm and Tuesday 6:30am. James Fuller 44 and Aaron Cook 28 had managed to escape from the roof.The two had tied sheets together to lower themselves from the rooftop of the jail.(it was like something out of a movie) Fuller had been digging his escape thru the roof for well over a year.Aaron Cook had been in jail since March for breaking the arm of a 3 year old girl.James Fuller an unemployed felon,already convicted of armed robbery and rape was accused of attacking the same woman twice(I & my husband remember reading about the attack in our local newspaper)He is described as a very scary character.Police warned the public that Fuller is to be CONSIDERED DANGEROUS.But,what really made this very scary for me personally,was the fact that he was tracked down to the very neighborhood in which I live.Aaron Cook was captured several hours after the two escaped.He was found hiding in the basement of a residence and two people were arrested for obstructing justice.But,Fuller was still at large.Just blocks away,Fuller broke into a resident's home,tied him up and robbed him,taking a vehicle and a cell phone.Around 7:00 pm he reportedly left the stolen vehicle in a High School parking lot(he was in my area now).The police tracked the cell phone to an area that is like 2 blocks from my house! I was a paranoid mess and I can imagine the fear his victims must have felt upon the news of his escape.He was out there somewhere the entire night.Police finally captured him in a vacant house,where he reportedly surrendered without a struggle(he had left my area).It is reported that Serial Rapist James Fuller 6'3 and 225 lbs. was a patient at Zellers Mental Health Center(now closed down) 20 years ago,when he overpowered a worker and escaped(he was 24 yrs. old) he was at large for 5 days.He was a sixteen year old basketball star when he was first charged with rape,it is reported.But,thanks to the Peoria Police Department and local authority's James Fuller Serial Rapist and Man Of Terror is back behind bars!