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Monday, January 11, 2010

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS VERY SERIOUS REGARDLESS OF A PERSON'S GENDER...

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SWEET DREAMS-A WHOLE LOT BULL!!!

Broke down again,I'm sitting here and thinking about all of the details that I've learned about concerning my son Horace.His wife slept with other guys in there home.I just can't believe her nerve.How could she lean over him and plant a devil's kiss on his forehead at his funeral??? How could she face his family and pretend to be in pain??? She knows what happened to my son,I know that she does.When I spoke with her two weeks ago (the day that my son was found) she told me that she had dropped my son off somewhere but,the local newspaper there stated that she had told him to dress warm before he went out that night.She's lying.I emailed the Coroner's Office today and requested a copy of my son's Toxicology Report.I'll have to wait and see what it reveals.The detective that I spoke with and the Coroner both talked in circles to me.They just kept saying don't believe all of the rumors and this is not a T.V. Cop show,where the crime is solved in an hour.They spoke to me as if I were a DUMBASS.They didn't even reveal to me that they were investigating this case as a homicide,I read THAT in their local newspaper.My son supposedly had on three shirts and a hooded sweat shirt but,he was found WITHOUT a shirt on, one shirt was lying next to him and his shoes were placed beside him.The coroner told me that he was wearing three pairs of jeans.Where is the rest of his clothing??? There was a video posted on youtube on Dec.26th of him being beaten really bad but,the coroner told me there were no visible signs of trauma.THIS JUST DOESN'T ADD UP.And he was found only minutes from his home,on a road that was traveled by cars only.I was told that he was found in a KMart parking lot.So,it DOES NOT  make sense to me.I will continue to search for answers.I want justice for my son.He spent the last 10 years of his life being a devoted husband and father.He had a heart as big as the state of Texas and did not deserve to be murdered and placed out in the snow like a piece of trash.So I will continue to search for answers no matter what.
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ARGUEMENT BETWEEN TWO BROTHERS,LEAVES ONE BROTHER DEAD...

Brothers' argument in West Dallas ends with fatal stabbing

11:45 AM CST on Sunday, January 10, 2010
By RICHARD ABSHIRE / The Dallas Morning News
A weekend argument between two brothers ended in death, according to Dallas police reports.
Shortly before 10 p.m. Friday, police said, Eleazar Desiga, 35, stabbed Luis Desiga, 39, repeatedly after a disturbance in the 1000 block of Eastgrove Street in West Dallas.
Luis Desiga died of his wounds at Methodist Central Hospital.
Eleazar Desiga was arrested and charged with murder.
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MAN GOING TO TRIAL FOR LYING TO POLICE BUT,HIS WIFE IS STILL MISSING...

MURFREESBORO, Tenn. - The husband of a missing Murfreesboro woman did not reach a plea deal with prosecutors Monday in court and his case is set for trial next week.
Marcie Smith's body has never been found. Her husband Palmer is not charged with murder. Prosecutors believe he lied to them the day his wife Marcie disappeared two years ago.
Police charged Palmer Smith with several counts of fabricating evidence and filing a false report.
The only hard piece of evidence in the case is surveillance video from a WalMart parking lot. It shows a person pulling a bicycle from Marcie's Lincoln Navigator and riding away.
Police believe Smith drove the SUV to the parking lot, and that he was the person on the bike. Smith said it was not him. Authorities plan to prove otherwise by calling witnesses from the WalMart who picked Palmer out of a photo line-up.
Smith's attorney John Norton said he'll attack the credibility of the witnesses. He said his client was on television so much after his wife disappeared the witnesses likely first saw him on TV.
Jury selection in the trial is expected to begin next Tuesday.http://www.chanel5.com/
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MAN SHOOTS EX-GIRLFRIEND ON A CROWDED STREETCORNER

Cops arrested a jilted ex-boyfriend for opening fire on his former lover on a crowded upper East Side streetcorner, police said Sunday.
Ramon Castillo, 24, was waiting for his 21-year-old former flame as she got out of work at 11:30 p.m. Saturday, cops said. He ambushed her at the corner of Third Ave. and E. 91st St., police said.
The Bronx man unleashed two bullets, hitting her in the arm and grazing her forehead, police said.
He ran as the woman's friend called 911, but was caught a block away, police said. Charges against him are pending.
No one else on the crowded sidewalk was injured, police said. The wounded woman was taken to New York-Presbyterian Hospital Weill Cornell, where she is in stable condition
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/
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This story is very horrific & disturbing...7-year-old's slaying stuns neighbors - The Daily Breeze

7-year-old's slaying stuns neighbors - The Daily Breeze
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COUPLE FOUND SHOT TO DEATH (probable murder/suicide)- The Daily Breeze

2 found fatally shot in Manhattan Beach home - The Daily Breeze
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MAN CHARGED WITH SHOOTING A 4 YEAR OLD BOY

SUN-TIMES MEDIA WIRE
A man was charged Sunday night with the gang-related shooting of a 4-year-old boy who police said was not the intended target Wednesday night in the Belmont-Cragin neighborhood on the Northwest Side.
Juan Herrera, 26, of the 3100 block of North Lockwood Avenue was charged at 10:25 p.m. Sunday with aggravated battery of a child with a firearm, aggravated battery with a firearm and two counts of aggravated discharge of a firearm, according to police.
Juan Herrera, 26, of the 3100 block of North Lockwood Avenue was charged at 10:25 p.m. Sunday with aggravated battery of a child with a firearm, aggravated battery with a firearm and two counts of aggravated discharge of a firearm, according to police.
He also had been wanted in a warrant that was not connected with the shooting. Herrera was arrested Saturday at 4:10 p.m. at Grand Central Area detective headquarters, 5555 W. Grand Ave. http://www.suntimes.com/
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MAN TRIES TO STRANGLE WOMAN WITH CORD :: CHICAGO SUN-TIMES :: Chicago Crime

Man charged with trying to strangle woman :: CHICAGO SUN-TIMES :: Chicago Crime
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This Woman is accused of stabbing her boyfriend to death after an arguement...

SUN-TIMES MEDIA WIRE
Police have charged a West Side man’s live-in-girlfriend with murder after a domestic dispute resulted in the man’s stabbing late Friday.
Edrinna Bryant, 24, of the 1600 block of South California Avenue, was charged with murder according to a release from Chicago Police News Affair
Police have charged Edrinna Bryant for stabbing her boyfriend late Friday on the West Side.
(Sun-Times Media)
Bryant allegedly fatally stabbed her live-in boyfriend, Levile Hardy, police said.
Bryant was placed into custody at Mt. Sinai Hospital at 2750 W. 15th St. and will appear in bond court later Monday, the release said.
Police responded to a domestic dispute at 1659 S. California Ave. about 11 p.m. Friday, police News Affairs Officer John Mirabelli said.
Hardy, 30, of 1659 S. California Ave., was pronounced dead at 12:01 a.m. Saturday at Mount Sinai Hospital, according to the Cook County Medical Examiner’s office, which said Hardy was stabbed at his home.
Harrison Area detectives are investigating.---http://www.suntimes.com/
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SWEET DREAMS-I WANT JUSTICE FOR MY SON!

I want to stress to everyone that domestic abuse is still ABUSE,whether or not you are MALE or FEMALE.I'm learning more and more details of the abuse my 27 year old son suffered at the hands of his wife.She physically abused my son and thru him out of their home at least twice a week,he was forced to sleep on the porch as well.It is really painful to hear these details now.Did she have something to do with my sons death?Yes,I believe that she did.I know that anyone capable of cutting your face or stabbing you with a knife is quite capable of killing you.My son told me a few years back that she had stabbed him in the arm.I spoke with both of them at the time and tried to STRESS the seriousness of the situation they were in.I'm contacting the coroner back in my hometown today,I want the results of his toxicology tests ASAP.I'll do what ever is neccessary to see that he/she DOES NOT get away with murdering my son.He was a very caring and loving person that did not deserve to have his life violently cut off like that.Whoever killed him put him out in the snow and left him there like a piece of trash....
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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HURTS---LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSE TO

ARE YOU A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

1. Is your partner threatening or violent towards you or the children? 2. Do you find yourself making excuses or minimizing your partner's behavior? 3. Do you feel completely controlled by your partner? 4. Do you feel helpless, trapped, alone, and isolated? 5. Do you blame yourself for the violence? 6. Does your partner blame you and tell you that you are the cause of all his problems? 7. Do you blame the violence on stress, on drugs/alcohol, or a bad childhood? 8. Does your partner constantly accuse you of having affairs when he can't account for 100% of your time? Does he tell you jealousy is a sign of love? 9. Do you fear going home? 10. Are you limited in your freedom like a child? (Go to the store and come straight home. It should take you 15 minutes.) 11. Do you find yourself lying to hide your partner's real behavior (for example, saying you fell down the stairs when actually you were pushed)? 12. Are you embarrassed or humiliated by your partner in an effort to control your behavior, especially in public? 13. Does your partner abandon you, leave you places, or lock you out? 14. Does your partner hide your keys, mail, or other important papers? (clarkprosecuter.org)

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THE AFTER MATH OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE (by Dennis Thompson Jr.)

People who were sexually abused as children may have issues with sexual dysfunction and self-destructive behavior when they get older. Sexual abuse leaves many scars, creating feelings of guilt, anger, and fear that haunt survivors throughout their lives. Adults who have undergone sexual abuse as children commonly experience depression and insomnia. High levels of anxiety in these adults can result in self-destructive behaviors, such as alcoholism or drug abuse, anxiety attacks, and situation-specific anxiety disorders. The damage extends to the sexual abuse survivor's sense of their own sexuality. Many survivors also have trouble pursuing adult relationships and enjoying sex as an adult. The abuse can color a person's sexuality, preventing the survivor from pursuing a healthy sex life with a loving partner. Sexual Abuse and Sexual Behaviors In general, childhood sexual abuse survivors tend to either pursue sex recklessly as adults or to forgo sex completely, says Stephen L. Braveman, MA, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Monterey, Calif., and the western regional representative of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. "They typically wind up with splitting behavior, where things become very black and white," he says. "Either they are very sexually active, or they shut down sexually." www.everydayhealth.com

SWEET DREAMS 4 -My fourth Entrie

Monday, July 6, 2009 Sweet Dreams 4 I remember back in June of 94,I was married to my 2nd abusive husband and pregnant with my now 14 year old son.Nicole Brown Simpson had been murdered.This sent a real chill down my spine.I can remember thinking,now her kids are left without a mother..But,I still remained in my abusive marriage for a little while longer.However,I did separate from him before my son was born.Of course this was not our first seperation.....ya,know the victim most always goes back to her abuser..You know the drill...'I'M Sorry' it won't happen again...Anyway on to Clue #3 CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR...The abuser wants to know your every move...if you arrive home late from an appointment or work,the abuser will become angry and accuse you of seeing someone else.The abuser at this point is very irrational.Trying to defend your actions or trying to reason with the abuser at this point can be very exhausting, to say the least.The abuser will want to control everything from what you wear,to where you go, to whom you talk too.Are you starting to wake up?Well,THERE'S EVEN MORE...AND IT GETS MORE SERIOUS AS WE GO ALONG...

SWEET DREAMS-THREE'S A CROWD

I can remember having the very misguided feeling of being special and ooh so loved,because my husband was so insanely jealous.I was foolish and naive enough to think that this was cute.I was 17,the first time I got married...of course,it was against my adopted parents better judgement.But,you already know...that of course, I did not listen to them.So many women feel unrealistically flattered by the potential abusers jealousy.WAKE UP! You are headed in a DANGER ZONE! I must also mention that,I have suffered from depression my whole life..So,of course this added to my insecurities and acceptance of allowing myself to be a victim time and time again for years..I must say when my 21 yr. old daughter started dating her soon to be abuser..I could do something that,I could not do each time I met one of my future abusers..It was if I had some kind of a built in radar..something that I did not have concerning my abusive relationships.He may as well have been wearing a label because I could see right through him.He absolutely,terrified me.I tried over and over again to warn my daughter to no avail.She stayed in the relationship.I could tell exactly when she was starting to see the REAL person that she too quickly became involved with..Which brings me to #2)QUICK INVOLVEMENT! That Worldwind Wanna Be Romance.The potential abuser comes on strong "You are the only one for me" or "you are the only person that I can trust or talk to"..Many abusers propose in less than six months.Potential abusers will often put pressure on their victims for commitment...to the point that the victim may feel guilty if they want to slow down the relationship.This is yet another important clue..PAY ATTENTION! If these two very important clues are not enough Believe me THERE ARE MORE!

MY SECOND SWEET DREAMS ENTRY

Sunday, July 5, 2009 Sweet Dreams Too First,I would like to say the feelings of hopelessness and just sheer low self esteem can cause a woman to feel so worthless,that she feels somehow it is her fault that her partner is abusive to her.These feelings are Totally Untrue.Please,Please do not listen to these negative feelings.If you have a trusted family member or friend..Please confide in them and let them be a strong source of support.You CAN NOT CHANGE HIM! You are waisting valuable time,if you try.I know that I felt for years, like it was my fault..I thought 'It must be my fault,if I keep attracting these kinds of guys".If you do not have a friend or family member,talk to your family doctor.If this is not an option call 1-800-559-safe.I know that a lot of women stay in the relationship because of finances and their children or both.Especially today,in these hard economic times.It can be difficult.But,your life is priceless..just remember that.If you have young children,they desperately need you.For those of you that would like to know what to look for, as far as WARNING SIGNS..TO VIOLENT ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR..# 1)EXTREME JEALOUSY! He will tell you especially in the beginning of your relationship,that his jealousy is because he loves you so much..you are the best thing that has ever happened to him.He doesn't want lose you.WATCH OUT!

SWEET DREAMS (The beginning of this blog)

This blog is dedicated to women survivors of domestic violence.I was a victim of domestic violence for years.It is behind me now but,it recently touched my 21 year old daughter's life.All of the signs were there and I saw them and I desperately tried to warn her about them.But,of course she would not listen to me.Her ex-boyfriend recently set our house on fire as we were sleeping.The Lord awoke my daughter in time for her to alert us all(my husband & my two teenaged sons)we were able to escape without harm and our house was not very badly damaged.I have since installed a home security system.We all are still terrified because he was never arrested for the aggravated arson.The police did not have prove that he did it.Even though he posted a photo of himself,posing with a lighter burning,on a social network.My daughter has a 2yr. protection order against him.He violated it with telephone calls,he was arrested for this and he does have to go to court for it.In my blog I will list telltale signs of a potentially abusive person.I hope that I can help someone out there avoid becoming a victim of domestic violence.

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MANHUNT IN PEORIA (published ALLVOICES) by me win59

On Tuesday Morning November 16th,my husband and I awoke to the startling news of two inmates escaping from the Peoria County Jail sometime between Monday 8:00pm and Tuesday 6:30am. James Fuller 44 and Aaron Cook 28 had managed to escape from the roof.The two had tied sheets together to lower themselves from the rooftop of the jail.(it was like something out of a movie) Fuller had been digging his escape thru the roof for well over a year.Aaron Cook had been in jail since March for breaking the arm of a 3 year old girl.James Fuller an unemployed felon,already convicted of armed robbery and rape was accused of attacking the same woman twice(I & my husband remember reading about the attack in our local newspaper)He is described as a very scary character.Police warned the public that Fuller is to be CONSIDERED DANGEROUS.But,what really made this very scary for me personally,was the fact that he was tracked down to the very neighborhood in which I live.Aaron Cook was captured several hours after the two escaped.He was found hiding in the basement of a residence and two people were arrested for obstructing justice.But,Fuller was still at large.Just blocks away,Fuller broke into a resident's home,tied him up and robbed him,taking a vehicle and a cell phone.Around 7:00 pm he reportedly left the stolen vehicle in a High School parking lot(he was in my area now).The police tracked the cell phone to an area that is like 2 blocks from my house! I was a paranoid mess and I can imagine the fear his victims must have felt upon the news of his escape.He was out there somewhere the entire night.Police finally captured him in a vacant house,where he reportedly surrendered without a struggle(he had left my area).It is reported that Serial Rapist James Fuller 6'3 and 225 lbs. was a patient at Zellers Mental Health Center(now closed down) 20 years ago,when he overpowered a worker and escaped(he was 24 yrs. old) he was at large for 5 days.He was a sixteen year old basketball star when he was first charged with rape,it is reported.But,thanks to the Peoria Police Department and local authority's James Fuller Serial Rapist and Man Of Terror is back behind bars!