Tuesday, March 30, 2010
SWEET DREAMS--My Best Friend 4---In search of......
As my best friend started to heal from her horrific ordeal and loss,my abusive first husband and I took our son and moved into my Daddy's apartment over the garage.Soon after, I discovered that I was pregnant with my second child.By now I hated the man that I lived with and I would no longer allow him to touch me.I thought perhaps this would force him to leave me alone and remove himself from my life.I had so very much wanted to move into that cozy little apartment with just my son but that didn't happen.My parents took marriage very seriously and were pretty much like "You've made your bed,Now you have to lie in it".Those were some very unhappy years and a lot of things I honestly don't remember,it's like a big blur.My abusive 1st husband landed himself another job with a local glass company.I knew that it wouldn't last long but I was thrilled that he would be out of the apartment and my site.I loved whenever he wasn't aound.I would literally cringe when I would hear him coming up the stairs.I was into reading a lot back then because I was a prisoner I couldn't go out or do anything.
My Mother-In-Law would even come by and ask her son if I could go out with her and he would always say no.She would say to him "Boy I'm your Mother, what's she going to do wrong with me?" and he would say "I know who you are".Around this time she and I started to get along,I felt that she finally understood what I was going through with her abusive and controlling son.She would also tell him that he should not abuse the one he loves.But it was to no avail.By this time my best friend had moved also.She moved into a small house that was in the same area as her Parents house.I would not really be able to visit her until my final seperation from my abusive 1st husband.Because he would drink up all the money he made we were unable to keep a home phone and I was so terrifed that I would go into labor all alone in that apartment and not be able to get help.Thank God that didn't happen.My daughter would be born on Father's Day 1980 a healthy baby.Her dad left the hospital and came back later on that day drunk.I was so disgusted,I felt sick to my stomach.His older brother who drove him up to the hospital,had to almost literally carry him out.And then during another time I remember also seeing a sinister side of my abusive husband when he had gotten a puppy from someone and he took the poor helpless pup outside on the porch and cut off it's tail.That poor puppy cried out in shriek's of severe pain.I had to keep my 2 year old son away from the area.There was no way that I could allow him to see such a horrible act by his dad.There was blood everywhere on the porch.It literally looked as if something had been slaughtered out there.I started thinking back to my best friend Bernice and what she had told me about praying, for her then abusive boyfriend to be arrested and I myself began to pray to God above for relief from this situation.I wanted out BAD.My abusive husband always told me though,that he would never let me go and that he would kill for what was his.He also told me that he would take my children away from me.He said "You will NEVER get my KIDS!!!".He felt this way because his Mom had left his dad and took he and his brother with her.She had said that his dad would literally lock her in the house.So finally one day she took her sons and left she moved very far away but even though she did it for good reason,he refused to see it that way.I had really gotten myself into a horrible mess with no easy escape.So I begun to pray hard,very hard.I had to get out this mess somehow....
My Mother-In-Law would even come by and ask her son if I could go out with her and he would always say no.She would say to him "Boy I'm your Mother, what's she going to do wrong with me?" and he would say "I know who you are".Around this time she and I started to get along,I felt that she finally understood what I was going through with her abusive and controlling son.She would also tell him that he should not abuse the one he loves.But it was to no avail.By this time my best friend had moved also.She moved into a small house that was in the same area as her Parents house.I would not really be able to visit her until my final seperation from my abusive 1st husband.Because he would drink up all the money he made we were unable to keep a home phone and I was so terrifed that I would go into labor all alone in that apartment and not be able to get help.Thank God that didn't happen.My daughter would be born on Father's Day 1980 a healthy baby.Her dad left the hospital and came back later on that day drunk.I was so disgusted,I felt sick to my stomach.His older brother who drove him up to the hospital,had to almost literally carry him out.And then during another time I remember also seeing a sinister side of my abusive husband when he had gotten a puppy from someone and he took the poor helpless pup outside on the porch and cut off it's tail.That poor puppy cried out in shriek's of severe pain.I had to keep my 2 year old son away from the area.There was no way that I could allow him to see such a horrible act by his dad.There was blood everywhere on the porch.It literally looked as if something had been slaughtered out there.I started thinking back to my best friend Bernice and what she had told me about praying, for her then abusive boyfriend to be arrested and I myself began to pray to God above for relief from this situation.I wanted out BAD.My abusive husband always told me though,that he would never let me go and that he would kill for what was his.He also told me that he would take my children away from me.He said "You will NEVER get my KIDS!!!".He felt this way because his Mom had left his dad and took he and his brother with her.She had said that his dad would literally lock her in the house.So finally one day she took her sons and left she moved very far away but even though she did it for good reason,he refused to see it that way.I had really gotten myself into a horrible mess with no easy escape.So I begun to pray hard,very hard.I had to get out this mess somehow....
POLICE AFTER BANK ROBBER ACCIDENTLY SHOOT 2 YEAR OLD BOY...
The father of a young boy critically injured after being shot by Jacksonville police aiming at a bank robbery suspect Friday is holding vigil by his son's hospital bedside after arriving from Jamaica, the boy's uncle told The Times-Union today.
Kirk Crichton is with his 2-year-old son, Daniel, at Shands Jacksonville hospital, said Don Crichton. Daniel remains in critical condition today as he recovers from shots to his chest and arm. His mother, Joann Cooper, 35, is in fair condition recovering from a gunshot to her foot.
Police this afternoon identified the suspect as Jeremiah Mathis, 31, of Utica, N.Y. He has prior convictions in New York for robbery and possession of a controlled substance. He was last released from prison in 2008, records show.
Don Crichton said Daniel's father doesn't intend to leave his son's side and will not immediately be available for interviews. In an earlier telephone interview with The Times-Union, Kirk Crichton criticized police for their actions.
The Jacksonville branch of the NAACP called today for an independent inquiry into the shooting. The State Attorney's Office is investigating whether any laws were broken. If not, then a Sheriff's Office review board will try to determine if any policies were violated.---http://www.jacksonville.com/
Kirk Crichton is with his 2-year-old son, Daniel, at Shands Jacksonville hospital, said Don Crichton. Daniel remains in critical condition today as he recovers from shots to his chest and arm. His mother, Joann Cooper, 35, is in fair condition recovering from a gunshot to her foot.
Police this afternoon identified the suspect as Jeremiah Mathis, 31, of Utica, N.Y. He has prior convictions in New York for robbery and possession of a controlled substance. He was last released from prison in 2008, records show.
Don Crichton said Daniel's father doesn't intend to leave his son's side and will not immediately be available for interviews. In an earlier telephone interview with The Times-Union, Kirk Crichton criticized police for their actions.
The Jacksonville branch of the NAACP called today for an independent inquiry into the shooting. The State Attorney's Office is investigating whether any laws were broken. If not, then a Sheriff's Office review board will try to determine if any policies were violated.---http://www.jacksonville.com/
Man stabs pregnant wife and her twin sister---apparently his wife refused to get an abortion
A Queens man - enraged because his wife refused to have an abortion - slashed her throat and then stabbed her sister in the stomach Monday night in front of a room full of children, police and relatives said.
The wounded wife, Petrona Kates, and her bleeding twin, Patricia Kates, both 36, fled their Jamaica residence about 8:45 p.m. and ran to a local bodega, desperately pleading for help.
The Kateses' cousin Lesia Wickham, 32, said that according to family members' account, Petrona Kates' husband, Fitzgerald Jolly, became furious after he returned from Philadelphia and learned his wife was pregnant.
"I guess he didn't want her to carry on with the pregnancy," said Wickham, shocked over the bloodshed, which took place in front of at least six children, including Petrona Kates' young son.
"They were arguing. He left, then came back inside, took a knife from the kitchen and started to attack them."
Wickham said that as Jolly stormed out of the house, he "dropped the knife in a neighbor's yard and jumped in his vehicle and drove off." Cops later found the vehicle abandoned on the Whitestone Bridge, but Jolly's whereabouts are unknown, police said.
Petrona and Patricia Kates were both in stable condition last night at Jamaica Hospital, police said.
Bodega clerk Zaqrea Mahammed, 23, said he was behind the counter when Petrona Kates burst into the store. "I saw her come in holding her neck, bleeding all over her body," he said. "She said, 'Call the police! Call an ambulance!'"
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/
The wounded wife, Petrona Kates, and her bleeding twin, Patricia Kates, both 36, fled their Jamaica residence about 8:45 p.m. and ran to a local bodega, desperately pleading for help.
The Kateses' cousin Lesia Wickham, 32, said that according to family members' account, Petrona Kates' husband, Fitzgerald Jolly, became furious after he returned from Philadelphia and learned his wife was pregnant.
"I guess he didn't want her to carry on with the pregnancy," said Wickham, shocked over the bloodshed, which took place in front of at least six children, including Petrona Kates' young son.
"They were arguing. He left, then came back inside, took a knife from the kitchen and started to attack them."
Wickham said that as Jolly stormed out of the house, he "dropped the knife in a neighbor's yard and jumped in his vehicle and drove off." Cops later found the vehicle abandoned on the Whitestone Bridge, but Jolly's whereabouts are unknown, police said.
Petrona and Patricia Kates were both in stable condition last night at Jamaica Hospital, police said.
Bodega clerk Zaqrea Mahammed, 23, said he was behind the counter when Petrona Kates burst into the store. "I saw her come in holding her neck, bleeding all over her body," he said. "She said, 'Call the police! Call an ambulance!'"
Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/
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