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Sunday, May 9, 2010

MOM'S WHO HAVE LOST CHILDREN GATHER TOGETHER FOR SUPPORT..

May 9, 2010 (CHICAGO) (WLS) -- Chicago mothers who have lost children to violence gathered for a somber event on Mother's Day, supporting each other and calling for an end to the bloodshed.

Those assembled at St. Sabina church on the city's South Side said they also wanted to see an end to the silence that is protecting murderers.

The emotional gathering has become an annual event at St. Sabina.

One mother attending the event was Yolan Henry; her daughter, Nova Henry, and granddaughter became victims of gun violence .

"It's hard to say Happy Mother's Day and really feel happy about it," Yolan Henry said.

It's the same for mother Elizabeth Lopez and her husband. Their son was gunned down last year on April 15.

"As a mother, this is very painful," she said.

"You remember all the good things: his first step, the first time he looks at you and you know he loves you," said Andrew Lopez.

On what is a day of celebration for most, the women at St. Sabina were among a growing sisterhood of grief, sharing the sorrow and hurt of losing a child.

"You don't know what it's like to wake up and not have your child on Mother's Day or any other day," said Maria Ramirez.

The mothers, their families and supporters gathered Sunday at a newly unveiled sculpture dedicated to the memory of their murdered children.

It depicts the taking of a young life. (ABC-WLS)
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PRINCIPAL ARRESTED FOR CHILD LEAVING CHILDREN ALONE

A middle aged Dallas principal was arrested by police this morning after they say she left her 3- and 4-year-old children in a room at the Adolphus hotel while she tried to get into a downtown nightclub.

Carla Westbrook-Spaniel, 44, of Arlington was arrested on two counts of abandoning a child with the intent to return and one count of public intoxication. Westbrook-Spaniel was in the Dallas County Jail on Saturday after her arrest at 1:30 a.m. Bail was set at $30,000.

According to police, Westbrook-Spaniel tried to get into a nightclub in the 1500 block of Main Street early Saturday but was turned away by the bouncer because she didn't meet the dress code. She then tried to push her way past the bouncer to get inside and punched him in the stomach, police Sgt. Warren Mitchell said.

When officers arrived, Westbrook-Spaniel became agitated and wrestled with them, according to a police report. Mitchell said the officers reported that she scratched her cheeks while flailing on the ground.

Officers arrested Westbrook-Spaniel on the public intoxication count after smelling alcohol on her breath, the report said.

In the course of the arrest, the officers learned that Westbrook-Spaniel's children were alone in a room at the Adolphus downtown. Officers who checked on the children found them sleeping naked in bed. After the officers woke them up, the children complained of hunger and the officers got them something to eat.

It was unclear how long the children had been left unattended. Police took custody of them and notified Child Protective Services.

Abandoning a child with the intent to return is a state jail felony. Conviction can draw 180 days to two years in jail and a fine up to $10,000.

According to a short biography on the Fort Worth ISD website, Westbrook-Spaniel has been a principal at J.P. Elder Middle School since 2006. She previously was a special education teacher and principal in the Dallas Independent School District, according to the biography. DISD appointed her principal at Oran M. Roberts Elementary near Fair Park in 1999.
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TEEN DRAGGED BY SHIRT AND BEATEN...

Cambridge — On April 26, police responded to Willow Street to investigate a teenage boy who was assaulted. When they arrived at 5:08 p.m., an ambulance was treating the 15-year-old for cuts and bruises to his face.

The victim described the suspect as a black male, but could not say more. Witnesses said the victim was “dragged by his shirt” across the street to the park and beaten “wildly,” but could not identify the suspect. Police searched the area briefly to no avail.---http://www.wickedlocal.com/
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DEADLY SHOOTING AT LA RESTAURANT

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TWO TEENAGER'S KILLED AT PARTY DEFENDING FRIEND'S MOM

Two  innocent teenagers were killed at a party, both defending a friend's mom.

Quanisha Wright, 16, tried to defend her friend's mother from a gunman's taunts and Marvin Wiggins jumped in front of a bullet to protect another woman from the gunplay, witnesses said.

Marvin Wiggins, 15, died cradled in his father's arms.

"He said 'I'm sorry Pop, I'm holding on.' I said, 'Why you sorry? Just don't go Marvin, breathe," said Marvin Wiggins Sr., 69.

"Then he started gasping," Marvin Wiggins Sr. said. "His eyes went back. I said, 'Please Marvin hold on.' But I didn't hear him say anything then."

Marvin Wiggins Jr. and Quanisha Wright, who had just celebrated her Sweet 16th birthday on Friday, were shot at a party for a one-year-old in an apartment at 1776 Weeks Ave. at about 2 a.m.

A teen who lives upstairs in the five-story building, his father, and a friend were taken into custody and questioned. They had not been charged last night.

A third victim, Tisha Eleazer, 20, aunt of the birthday baby, was hit in the arm.

Witnesses told the Daily News the shooter had been beaten up by party-goers earlier in the evening for touching a young girl. They said he came back to the party mad and armed.

"They can't take a beating - that's why they came back with the gun," one witness said.

When the men returned, they taunted Eleazer's mother, prompting Wright to step up and tell one of the men not to disrespect the older woman, witnesses said.

At that point, another man opened fire. Wright was hit in the torso.

"How could they take my little girl away over nothing?" asked her heartbroken dad, John Barnwell. "She was the sweetest girl. She never hurt a soul."

Wright, a student at the Bronx Leadership Academy, was raised by her grandmother.


Read more: http://www.nydailynews.com/
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MOTHER AND DAUGHTER SHOT WHILE SLEEPING

A shooting early Mother's Day left a mother and daughter injured while they were sleeping in an apartment in Kenosha, Wisc.

About 2:30 a.m., a shot was fired into an apartment unit in the 4800 block of 38th Avenue, striking a 10-year-old girl and what is believed to be her 45-year-old mother, according to Kenosha Police Sgt. David Molinaro.

Mother and daughter were asleep together in a bed in the ground-level apartment when a shot from outside pierced the wood siding of the apartment and entered the bedroom, Molinaro said. The bullet hit the girl in her upper leg, went "through-and-through," and exited, striking the mother in her hip, he said.

Neither injuries were life-threatening and the pair were taken to a local hospital for treatment. They are expected to be released later Sunday, Molinaro said.

There were other people in the apartment at the time, but no one else was injured, he said.

Information was not immediately available on whether anyone was in custody or if police were speaking to persons of interest, he said.---http://www.suntimes.com/
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DOMESTIC VIOLENCE HURTS---LOVE ISN'T SUPPOSE TO

ARE YOU A VICTIM OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE?

1. Is your partner threatening or violent towards you or the children? 2. Do you find yourself making excuses or minimizing your partner's behavior? 3. Do you feel completely controlled by your partner? 4. Do you feel helpless, trapped, alone, and isolated? 5. Do you blame yourself for the violence? 6. Does your partner blame you and tell you that you are the cause of all his problems? 7. Do you blame the violence on stress, on drugs/alcohol, or a bad childhood? 8. Does your partner constantly accuse you of having affairs when he can't account for 100% of your time? Does he tell you jealousy is a sign of love? 9. Do you fear going home? 10. Are you limited in your freedom like a child? (Go to the store and come straight home. It should take you 15 minutes.) 11. Do you find yourself lying to hide your partner's real behavior (for example, saying you fell down the stairs when actually you were pushed)? 12. Are you embarrassed or humiliated by your partner in an effort to control your behavior, especially in public? 13. Does your partner abandon you, leave you places, or lock you out? 14. Does your partner hide your keys, mail, or other important papers? (clarkprosecuter.org)

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THE AFTER MATH OF CHILDHOOD SEXUAL ABUSE (by Dennis Thompson Jr.)

People who were sexually abused as children may have issues with sexual dysfunction and self-destructive behavior when they get older. Sexual abuse leaves many scars, creating feelings of guilt, anger, and fear that haunt survivors throughout their lives. Adults who have undergone sexual abuse as children commonly experience depression and insomnia. High levels of anxiety in these adults can result in self-destructive behaviors, such as alcoholism or drug abuse, anxiety attacks, and situation-specific anxiety disorders. The damage extends to the sexual abuse survivor's sense of their own sexuality. Many survivors also have trouble pursuing adult relationships and enjoying sex as an adult. The abuse can color a person's sexuality, preventing the survivor from pursuing a healthy sex life with a loving partner. Sexual Abuse and Sexual Behaviors In general, childhood sexual abuse survivors tend to either pursue sex recklessly as adults or to forgo sex completely, says Stephen L. Braveman, MA, a licensed marriage and family therapist in Monterey, Calif., and the western regional representative of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. "They typically wind up with splitting behavior, where things become very black and white," he says. "Either they are very sexually active, or they shut down sexually." www.everydayhealth.com

SWEET DREAMS 4 -My fourth Entrie

Monday, July 6, 2009 Sweet Dreams 4 I remember back in June of 94,I was married to my 2nd abusive husband and pregnant with my now 14 year old son.Nicole Brown Simpson had been murdered.This sent a real chill down my spine.I can remember thinking,now her kids are left without a mother..But,I still remained in my abusive marriage for a little while longer.However,I did separate from him before my son was born.Of course this was not our first seperation.....ya,know the victim most always goes back to her abuser..You know the drill...'I'M Sorry' it won't happen again...Anyway on to Clue #3 CONTROLLING BEHAVIOR...The abuser wants to know your every move...if you arrive home late from an appointment or work,the abuser will become angry and accuse you of seeing someone else.The abuser at this point is very irrational.Trying to defend your actions or trying to reason with the abuser at this point can be very exhausting, to say the least.The abuser will want to control everything from what you wear,to where you go, to whom you talk too.Are you starting to wake up?Well,THERE'S EVEN MORE...AND IT GETS MORE SERIOUS AS WE GO ALONG...

SWEET DREAMS-THREE'S A CROWD

I can remember having the very misguided feeling of being special and ooh so loved,because my husband was so insanely jealous.I was foolish and naive enough to think that this was cute.I was 17,the first time I got married...of course,it was against my adopted parents better judgement.But,you already know...that of course, I did not listen to them.So many women feel unrealistically flattered by the potential abusers jealousy.WAKE UP! You are headed in a DANGER ZONE! I must also mention that,I have suffered from depression my whole life..So,of course this added to my insecurities and acceptance of allowing myself to be a victim time and time again for years..I must say when my 21 yr. old daughter started dating her soon to be abuser..I could do something that,I could not do each time I met one of my future abusers..It was if I had some kind of a built in radar..something that I did not have concerning my abusive relationships.He may as well have been wearing a label because I could see right through him.He absolutely,terrified me.I tried over and over again to warn my daughter to no avail.She stayed in the relationship.I could tell exactly when she was starting to see the REAL person that she too quickly became involved with..Which brings me to #2)QUICK INVOLVEMENT! That Worldwind Wanna Be Romance.The potential abuser comes on strong "You are the only one for me" or "you are the only person that I can trust or talk to"..Many abusers propose in less than six months.Potential abusers will often put pressure on their victims for commitment...to the point that the victim may feel guilty if they want to slow down the relationship.This is yet another important clue..PAY ATTENTION! If these two very important clues are not enough Believe me THERE ARE MORE!

MY SECOND SWEET DREAMS ENTRY

Sunday, July 5, 2009 Sweet Dreams Too First,I would like to say the feelings of hopelessness and just sheer low self esteem can cause a woman to feel so worthless,that she feels somehow it is her fault that her partner is abusive to her.These feelings are Totally Untrue.Please,Please do not listen to these negative feelings.If you have a trusted family member or friend..Please confide in them and let them be a strong source of support.You CAN NOT CHANGE HIM! You are waisting valuable time,if you try.I know that I felt for years, like it was my fault..I thought 'It must be my fault,if I keep attracting these kinds of guys".If you do not have a friend or family member,talk to your family doctor.If this is not an option call 1-800-559-safe.I know that a lot of women stay in the relationship because of finances and their children or both.Especially today,in these hard economic times.It can be difficult.But,your life is priceless..just remember that.If you have young children,they desperately need you.For those of you that would like to know what to look for, as far as WARNING SIGNS..TO VIOLENT ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR..# 1)EXTREME JEALOUSY! He will tell you especially in the beginning of your relationship,that his jealousy is because he loves you so much..you are the best thing that has ever happened to him.He doesn't want lose you.WATCH OUT!

SWEET DREAMS (The beginning of this blog)

This blog is dedicated to women survivors of domestic violence.I was a victim of domestic violence for years.It is behind me now but,it recently touched my 21 year old daughter's life.All of the signs were there and I saw them and I desperately tried to warn her about them.But,of course she would not listen to me.Her ex-boyfriend recently set our house on fire as we were sleeping.The Lord awoke my daughter in time for her to alert us all(my husband & my two teenaged sons)we were able to escape without harm and our house was not very badly damaged.I have since installed a home security system.We all are still terrified because he was never arrested for the aggravated arson.The police did not have prove that he did it.Even though he posted a photo of himself,posing with a lighter burning,on a social network.My daughter has a 2yr. protection order against him.He violated it with telephone calls,he was arrested for this and he does have to go to court for it.In my blog I will list telltale signs of a potentially abusive person.I hope that I can help someone out there avoid becoming a victim of domestic violence.

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MANHUNT IN PEORIA (published ALLVOICES) by me win59

On Tuesday Morning November 16th,my husband and I awoke to the startling news of two inmates escaping from the Peoria County Jail sometime between Monday 8:00pm and Tuesday 6:30am. James Fuller 44 and Aaron Cook 28 had managed to escape from the roof.The two had tied sheets together to lower themselves from the rooftop of the jail.(it was like something out of a movie) Fuller had been digging his escape thru the roof for well over a year.Aaron Cook had been in jail since March for breaking the arm of a 3 year old girl.James Fuller an unemployed felon,already convicted of armed robbery and rape was accused of attacking the same woman twice(I & my husband remember reading about the attack in our local newspaper)He is described as a very scary character.Police warned the public that Fuller is to be CONSIDERED DANGEROUS.But,what really made this very scary for me personally,was the fact that he was tracked down to the very neighborhood in which I live.Aaron Cook was captured several hours after the two escaped.He was found hiding in the basement of a residence and two people were arrested for obstructing justice.But,Fuller was still at large.Just blocks away,Fuller broke into a resident's home,tied him up and robbed him,taking a vehicle and a cell phone.Around 7:00 pm he reportedly left the stolen vehicle in a High School parking lot(he was in my area now).The police tracked the cell phone to an area that is like 2 blocks from my house! I was a paranoid mess and I can imagine the fear his victims must have felt upon the news of his escape.He was out there somewhere the entire night.Police finally captured him in a vacant house,where he reportedly surrendered without a struggle(he had left my area).It is reported that Serial Rapist James Fuller 6'3 and 225 lbs. was a patient at Zellers Mental Health Center(now closed down) 20 years ago,when he overpowered a worker and escaped(he was 24 yrs. old) he was at large for 5 days.He was a sixteen year old basketball star when he was first charged with rape,it is reported.But,thanks to the Peoria Police Department and local authority's James Fuller Serial Rapist and Man Of Terror is back behind bars!